Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Daily Dribbles and Pearls

Today is the first day the my head hasn't felt something. My back is a bit achy, but that is from the spring cleaning yesterday and the gardening today. The tomatoes, peppers and eggplants are in the soil!

I greatly expanded my arable land this year. I extended my tomato bed to either side using a 'lasagna' method. Instead of breaking my already broken back by digging up the grass, I covered the grass with newspaper and layered old organic matter on top. Today, as I dug through the layer, most of the grass was dead. I layered on some more leaf mould after planting. Now, just 40-60 more days...

I am hosting our nascent writing group tonight. I feel that my writing is currently stuffed up. Hopefully I can get it going again!

After gardening (and showering, of course) I got dressed for my later company, ie, wearing something other than yoga pants. I am wearing a blue jeans skirt and burnt orange top, and a strand of mother of pearls with matching bracelet. Now, I still had to straighten out the living room and set out the tea, the homemade cookies (shortbread, 3rd attempt), and the cute little tea service set that I have yet to have an occasion to use (only service for four, we usually have more over at a time, or recently, noone!), and prepare dinner. Not wanting to get my clothes all dirty, I put on my apron. I bought this apron at an estate sale, and it actually matches the orange top that I had put on. Whoa, wait, did you miss it? I am doing housework in pearls.

While meandering through my daily nothings, I forgot to mention that I am not really sure where I am in my grief anymore. I am pretty stressed out about this whole next pregnancy thing, my body is at odds with its resident, and I am not looking forward to missing my daughter every day of my life until the end of my days. It's tiresome when I think about it long term like that. But, more on all that later, I hear something trying to boil over out in the kitchen. Gad, what did housewives do without the internet? Housework? And speaking of housewives from the 50s, where is my mail? I haven't gotten any yet this week.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

I love the idea of you in pearls and an apron! And thanks for giving me hope that spring is somewhere - far too early for tomatoes here. Although I recently bought 3 topsy turvy tomato hangers (I am sometimes a sucker for "as seen on tv" items). Also hate the ttc train - drives me nuts. Hoping it happens for you soon.

Hope's Mama said...

"I am not looking forward to missing my daughter every day of my life until the end of my days."

Me neither. It is exhausting just thinking about it, isn't it?

Azaera said...

Maybe I should get C some pearls since he is my housewife.. and yes he has an apron, but it's black, not a festive orange. I'm sure you looked lovely!

erica said...

What a perfect image of domesticity! I hope the aches and pains stay far away & that the gardening continues to go well.

banbear2 said...

I hope you are feeling better soon!

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loribeth said...

I would have loved to see a photo of you in pearls & apron!

Bluebird said...

What an image :)